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Relationships Unfiltered

A quick message from Andrew Root:

Hello Youth Ministry friends, I’m sorry to interrupt your regularly scheduled blog reading, but I have broken transmission to offer you an opportunity.

I wanted to get before you the chance to get a free copy of my book Relationships Unfiltered. As the new school year approaches and you think about volunteer leader meetings and trainings I would like to suggest you take a look at Relationships Unfiltered. It’s written just for this setting with discussion questions and chapters filled with illustrations and stories–but also promises to get you and your team thinking theologically about your core practice this coming school year: forming relationships with young people.

Here’s what I can do: If you’ll email me I’ll send you a free copy of the book so you can look it over and decide if it would be of help to you and your volunteers. If you’re interested in using it you can then go to Zondervan.com or Zondervan.com/ministry and type in the code 980752 in the “source code” box. Starting August 1 this will give you a 40% discount on as many books as you’d like.

And I’ll also offer this, if you do use the book with your team, I’m willing to do a select number of Skype or iChat conversations with you and your team after getting through the book.

If you’re in youth ministry and don’t already own Relationships Unfiltered, you’d be a fool not to accept this offer.

I’ve written previously about the book here (which includes a nice little video) and had the opportunity to interview Dr. Root, which you can listen to here.

New song: Ghost In A Wedding Dress

It has been quite some time since I posted anything related to my personal music endeavors, so if you’re new here, Hi, I’m Jake and sometimes I write and record some music.

This is a song that has been in the works for well over a year. It’s called “Ghost In A Wedding Dress.” Enjoy.

Ghost In A Wedding Dress (Demo) by jakebouma

What is emerging? Simplicity.

In an attempt to scratch the surface of the question “What is emerging?” I’d like to unabashedly tweak a few words from a recent blog post by Clay Shirky, author of Here Comes Everybody: The Power of Organizing Without Organizations.

In his post, Shirky summarizes his consultation to TV executives about the future of their industry in the internet age. Below, I’ve taken the last several paragraphs of his post and altered some phrasing here and there to make it read like he’s answering church leaders about the future of the Church in an internet/postmodern/late-modern world. Any changed I’ve made are italicized (I mostly changed “video” to “church”).

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In the future, at least some methods of being the church will become as complex [think denominational organization], with as many details to attend to, as church has today, and people will doubtless make pots of money on those forms of church. It’s tempting, at least for the people benefitting from the old complexity, to imagine that if things used to be complex, and they’re going to be complex, then everything can just stay complex in the meantime. That’s not how it works, however.

Some church organizations still have to be complex to be valuable, but the logic of the old church ecoystem, where the church had to be complex simply to be the church, is broken. Expensive and expansive things made in complex ways now compete with cheap things made in simple ways. For example, the YouTube video Charlie Bit My Finger was made by amateurs, in one take, with a lousy camera. No professionals were involved in selecting or editing or distributing it. Not one dime changed hands anywhere between creator, host, and viewers. A world where that is the kind of thing that just happens from time to time is a world where complexity is neither an absolute requirement nor an automatic advantage.

When ecosystems change and inflexible institutions collapse, their members disperse, abandoning old beliefs, trying new things, making their living in different ways than they used to. It’s easy to see the ways in which collapse to simplicity wrecks the glories of old. But there is one compensating advantage for the people who escape the old system: when the ecosystem stops rewarding complexity, it is the people who figure out how to work simply in the present, rather than the people who mastered the complexities of the past, who get to say what happens in the future.

JakeBouma.com is a half decade old

I know, it’s been a while.1

Today is a special day, though, because it has now been a half decade since the day I purchased the JakeBouma.com domain name for the purpose of blogging. This post from the third birthday has a fun little history (for serious JakeBouma.comophiles only).

But seriously, why the lack of posting?

Aside from the gravitational pull of sites like Twitter and Posterous (mostly Twitter), there’s the fact that I’ve been slowly working on a book proposal.2 That means two things: 1) Much of my free time is spent reading, researching, and writing stuff that has to do with the proposal, and 2) A great portion of the stuff I would blog about — especially around topics like youth ministry, theology, social theory, and philosophy — I feel the need to keep “secret” until I know whether or not it will ever actually materialize in book form.3

So although I haven’t been around this here blog much, I have doing blog-worthy things. Which kind of sucks for you, I guess. Sorry. But the good news is that I just renewed JakeBouma.com for two more years. Which is kind of awesome for you, I guess.

Hey, while I’ve got you — you should check out a few things.

In late January I was a guest on Tim Schmoyer’s Live YM Talk, discussing “The need for theological questioning in youth ministry”. It’s runs about 50 minutes, and you can check it out here.

And earlier this week I was a guest on Andy Root’s online radio show talking about his new book The Promise of Despair (which I have said should be a top priority read if you’re invested in the future of the church). This one’s only 15 minutes long, and you can listen here. I’ve been told that I may receive a $10 Olive Garden gift card if my episode has the most listens, so…

Long story short: I miss you, and I’m told (some of) you miss me. Hang in there.

In closing, here’s a picture of Philip Clayton.

  1. For the record, the “someone I’ve never met” was Mitch McGinnis. Mitch — If you’re reading this, sorry for blocking you on Twitter.
  2. And, no, the title isn’t The Speed of Light: Intergalactic Space Travel in Youth Ministry.
  3. This doesn’t mean I haven’t dropped a few juicy hints here and there.

Books I read in 2009

My library grows faster than my stack of completed books, a “problem” that I attempted to remedy once with the 30 pages per day project. I doubt I averaged 30 pages per day, but I knocked plenty of books off the list in 2009. Here they are:

  • Watch For The Light: Readings For Advent And Christmas [I gave two of these away during Advent]
  • Made in America: An Informal History of the English Language in the United States by Bill Bryson
  • A Walk in the Woods: Rediscovering America on the Appalachian Trail by Bill Bryson [Photo]
  • Telling the Truth: The Gospel as Tragedy, Comedy, and Fairy Tale by Frederick Buechner [Related blog post + photo]
  • On Religion by John Caputo [Photo]
  • Crazy Love: Overwhelmed by a Relentless God by Francis Chan
  • The Perks of Being a Wallflower by Stephen Chbosky
  • Transforming Christian Theology: For Church and Society by Philip Clayton
  • The Sacredness of Questioning Everything by David Dark
  • You Shall Know Our Velocity by Dave Eggers [Related blog post - "My least favorite work by Eggers"]
  • Zeitoun by Dave Eggers
  • St. Patrick of Ireland: A Biography by Philip Freeman
  • You Can Write!: The Inside Scoop on Publishing Your Nonfiction Book by Sheryl Fullerton
  • The Invention of Air: A Story of Science, Faith, Revolution, and the Birth of America by Steven Johnson [Related blog post - "Interesting but not incredible"]
  • Downtown Owl: A Novel by Chuck Klosterman
  • Under the Banner of Heaven: A Story of Violent Faith by Jon Krakauer
  • Quantum : Einstein, Bohr and the Great Debate About the Nature of Reality by Manjit Kumar
  • Theology and Culture: A Guide to the Discussion by D. Stephen Long
  • Maximum City: Bombay Lost and Found by Suketu Mehta [Photo]
  • A Million Miles in a Thousand Years: What I Learned While Editing My Life by Donald Miller
  • Youth Ministry 3.0: A Manifesto of Where We’ve Been, Where We Are & Where We Need to Go by Mark Oestreicher
  • Relationships Unfiltered: Help for Youth Workers, Volunteers, and Parents on Creating Authentic Relationships by Andrew Root [Related blog post + interview with the author]
  • On Waiting by Harold Schweizer [Related blog posts one and two]
  • John the Baptist in the Gospel Tradition by Walter Wink
  • I’m currently reading Frederich Buechner’s Godric, which I hope to finish before the year is out. I should also mention that I’m 130 pages into Ched Myers’ momentous Binding the Strong Man: A Political Reading of Mark’s Story of Jesus for a weekly personal study with @bmick. At ten pages/week, we should finish it before the end of 2010.1

    1. Pronounced “twenty ten”, FYI.